Am sure there are couple out there looking for an xtra male to help things out so how do you find them
Most times it is about getting to know a couple first. There are the odd times that someone will want someone immediatly, but from our experience it is chatting to people and seeing if there is a 'click' that we want.
I think you will find on KiwiS's that getting into the chatroom and talking to people will open a few more doors.
good luck