New to this

Hi, was wondering how to go about all this...never explored this stuff before..

Basically don't be a dick!

Be yourself as much as you can (unless you're a dick)

Be honest about what you want, what you like, what turns you on

Be respectful, nobody owes you anything but if they give you a chance don't mess it up by being rude or not following through on agreed meets

Be upfront, if you change your mind that's cool, just say so and move along

Be safe, sane, consensual

Have fun!