Well, where to start! The forum seems a bit off the beaten track. All those young single blokes looking for anything with a pulse, the photo hunters and time wasters etc. are all looking at the pics and trying to get off remotely.
So in all of this how dose a decent couple get some discrete fun? Discreet seems to be code for don't tell my wife! We have semi public jobs and ex partners, kids etc that we would prefer to keep this away from.
Maybe there would be a few introduction couples that take you through things like a club of sorts. Do's and donts, the lingo and terms. If you are keen for your first bi experience it should be a nice gradual experience..
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Yes it can be really tough to find couples to connect with,I'm not sure what it is about Wellington but on the surface everyone seems really keen then nothing happens. We have found one regular couple to play with so if you'd like to meet us,maybe for drinks like a meet and greet? And like I said in my message,we're happy to answer any questions you might have 
Forum Virgin
hard to find anyone in the chatroom from dunners when we are on, most ppl we have played with have come from nights out at the pub or a party ot friends of friend etc. But chatroom still fun at times
Our first time we were at the pub and a horny girl took advantage of the in the ladies. This opened a new world to us. The following weekend we meet up with her and a girlfriend of hers
's, we had a great time two girls in one room and myself and the other in another :swingingchair:
We have meet couples through magazines and this website. Plus we did have friends that we had a benefits relationship with.
The key is take it slow and go with the flow. 
Forum Virgin
read the reply on how dose a discret couple find discret fun... how does a discret 'dreaded ' single man find some long term partners?
I mean I don't like being single.. but how to find a lady who would enjoy this world with me?
Only other option... and one that excites me is to join a couple.... lost
Hello everyone. This has taken my wife and I a number of years to get to this point. Married. Happy. Looking for something. Not into singles at this point. Having enough of a drama boy on girl, let alone thinking about one other. We are excited to try something more. Just don't know what more is. Help?
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Hello everyone. This has taken my wife and I a number of years to get to this point. Married. Happy. Looking for something. Not into singles at this point. Having enough of a drama boy on girl, let alone thinking about one other. We are excited to try something more. Just don't know what more is. Help?
We are in the exact same boat As you
Forum Virgin
It's a serious struggle to actually find couples who are actually here to meet up and push boundaries
Forum Virgin
We live in Auckland, so we were lucky enough to visit CCK, which is a good introduction to this world
Also, we talk to couples on here and let them know we are looking for couples we can hang out with and it's not all about the sex. Though the sex is nice
We have noticed some couples can be quite intense and seem to only want one time hookups, which isn't what we are looking for
I guess the best advice is make sure your profile explains what exactly you are looking for and make sure any couple you may potentially meet is on the same page
Meeting socially first is a must for us. So we can make sure we all vibe and also we need to have attraction too, but personality is essential
