We both have a veneer of respectability, but just below the surface runs a vein of kink, that sees us spending random nights at CCK and reaching out to strangers on swinger's sites, like.... well, like this one.

To be fair though, random strangers are less appealing to us than getting more familiar with a couple, developing a bit of a connection and getting to understand what turns each other on. We're looking for a couple that we can develop rapport with - not live in each others pockets - but certainly where we can all get real comfortable and explore some of our deepest darkest desires together.

Mr Dancer has an affinity for group play and loves the social aspects of sex - let's call it social sex huh. He loves seeing Ms Dancer being spoilt and really enjoys the group dynamic, although is just as comfortable in smaller gatherings.

Ms Dancer is seriously sensual, and loves all aspects of touch, taste and smell. She enjoys some of the more subtle aspects of sensuality, like a casual graze of lips across the back of the neck. She loves the soft, delicate feel of a women, but wouldn't describe her self as anything more than bi-curious (think 'making out' ) . 

Swinging is just a small part of us and is something we will only ever do together. We are looking for couples that come from a similar viewpoint. We would imagine that a first contact would involve a casual drink on mutual turf, at a bar where we can check out the chemistry and let the flirtations fly - or not, as the case maybe. 

We're both in our 50's (absolute genuine age on our profile, so if you're in the habit of adding ten years to any profile you read - not ours - we don't see the point in bullshit). We like to take good care of ourselves and we reckon we're in pretty good knick. Photos are recent.

So go ahead and send us a message. We don't have much spare time, so we're not likely to engage in loads of messaging back and forth. If the initial contact looks promising, we'll suggest a meet up at a bar fairly early on, and then we can take things from there. If you've seen us snooping on your profile, but we haven't messaged you, don't let that deter you - chuck us a wink and let us know you're interested.