The magic is in the meeting!

I am sane, self aware, warm, joyful, emotionally available and intellectual. I'm fascinated by sex and people and words and intimacy. I love to explore all that that can be. Sexy is wonderful but sleazy is awful... the difference is respect, consent, attunement .

I am a clear, kind, honest communicator and I need the same from my lover's. If you can't talk about it, I dont want to do it.

I'm a bubbly, playful extrovert. I love group play, MMF, small gatherings of sexy people, and overtly sexual spaces. I want to go to ALLLL the parties. Check the list of parties I'm attending and come meet me there. Parties are the easiest way to make new connections.

Most of all I love 1:1 time with kind, communicative, sensual men. More interested in ongoing lovers/FWB connections than DTF/ONS. I'm entirely demi/sapiosexual. Connection, intimacy and affection are what spark and drive my desire. Casual is great, but there still needs to be respect, interest and care.

So far, I've not been into pain or overly theatrical fetishism, but I'm turned on by a gently dominant presense and sometimes like to be firmly taken in hand and gently shown how to submit.

I'm more naked frolic than lingerie porn star.  173cm, size 16, curves and stripes. I really want to see your face and your eyes before we get very far into chat. If you wanna chat with me, share a face pic and tell me something about you besides the sex stuff. Start a conversation. I need to see that you look kissable to me, and that there's a brain behind your eyes.... I'll share my face in return. Establish there is attraction so we don't waste time.

I'm attracted to men close to my age or older than me. I like grey hair and creased faces and years of stories to tell and lessons learned. There are lots of beautiful young men out there. You are all gorgeous, but being a couger is not my thing. You remind me of my son, and I dont find that sexy.

PLEASE, for the love of orgasms, do NOT send me pictures of your penis!!! I'm sure it's lovely and you are clearly very proud of it, but show me that the rest of you is interesting first and then maybe we can enjoy it together.

And yet the diddles keep coming!! Oh so many pictures of diddles!! They assault my eyballs! Why do you do it?