About me:

Hello, my name is Apollo, I've been in and out of the swinging world for a number of years, been there, done that, but still have plenty to explore. Unapologetically seeking what's right for me.

I enjoy going to CCK, kink/BDSM parties, house parties, raves, undies parties, sex parties, festivals, and other sex positive events/spaces.

Ethically non-monogamous, and seeking female play partners for low stress fun. Other than one on one play, I'm looking for group play, orgies, sex parties and play partners to attend sex parties and events with.

I'm a lover of deep physical/mental intimacy, and need connection to truly enjoy play. I'm dominant and well versed in the joys of BDSM, and although submission is not a requirement, it's something I will certainly play too if you are that way inclined. I'm an anal fetishist, if you love anal, I might just love you. Despite my size, I have had a lot of successful anal sex with first timers, so don't let a bit of girth be too intimidating, you'll be in capable hands.

I'm open to play with couples at play parties, but after years of experience playing with couples as a single guy and being treated like a free service provider with no regard to my own needs, I'm no longer looking to meet couples privately. For the right couple I might be open to it, if I have an individual connection with both of you and I feel like I'm being valued as an individual, but that may be a high bar to meet. I'm happy to play with women in open relationships so long as we have an individual connection and aren't just playing within the dynamic you have with your partner, i.e. if our time together is predicated on him getting off, I'm not interested.

I'm very much the romantic type, but am living an intentionally single phase while focusing on other things in life. I'm open to dating, companionship, and friends with benefits if there's a real emphasis on the friends part. The right relationship will come when it's meant to, whether or not I'm actively avoiding serious relationships, and I'm happy with that.

Communication:

I'm not interested in endlessly chatting online, if we establish mutual interest, I'd like to plan on meeting as soon as schedules allow.