How to describe myself in a few short words......? A decent man, doing the "indecent " as decently as possible. Good manners cost nothing.

Mostly I am simply looking for some fun with interesting people. A lady or a couple who know how to "party". Pretty simple really. Having found a few couples who wanted an extra man I can say that I really like that scenario.

I especially love to give a "good tongue lashing " and I doooo like to watch. If there is an exhibitionist lurking in your soul then we should talk. Offering encouragement and appreciation from the sidelines is such fun.

I have some experience in the world of B&D and apparently I am quite good at it. Definitely not a hardened dungeon master though. More a skill set to be brought out on request.

I have now had a little light bi experience and while it is not something I lie awake at night dreaming about, in the context of a couple its "All part of the fun".

I prefer to meet people around my age (give or take 10 years anyway) but if you are younger and think you can keep up feel free to message me 😄.

The fire still rages deep within but the brain is fully engaged these days. I know the fact that I am married will put a lot off and I have to respect that. All I can say really is "walk a mile in my shoes".

Happy to swap photos, talk, whatever it takes really.

I WILL show if I say that I will.  I WILL deliver the goods and I WILL be nice.

All I ask is the same in return.

Oh yes.  I am fully vaxed and and you will ideally (but not necessarily) be up to date in that department.  If you are an anti vaxer, flat earther or Trump supporter, please "walk on by". 

I am in Auckland, but travel a lot for business.