We are a happily married couple who have a great sex life and have been together over 20 years.  We are curious to see if swinging is for us.  Would prefer to meet face to face for a couple of drinks and see what happens from there.   We both look after ourselves and keep the lawns tidy so would expect the same ;)  Discretion is a must for us as is keeping things clean and safe. We head to Auckland for the odd dirty weekend away so Auckland couples considered.  On here to meet geniune people (as...