You've spent most of your adult life feigning disinterest. You joined this site because you thought it'd be easy and you could order sex like you might a favourite pizza. It's okay to be selfish and you might have no interest in the other person, but you do need to engage in some form of communication to get what you want. You'd like an occasional shag, but you're either too idle, too self-conscious, or feel too old (or out of practice), to make a move to contact anyone. Which is a shame. Becaus...