Missing the spark in life that draws me here. The intelligent lady (or couple) who likes a good drink with great conversations, followed by flirtatious banter, and then esoteric delight. I know (from a previous life on here) the frustrations of guys simply not being reliable...you make a date and all of a sudden they have a work shift, or something else. I'll never do that. Ever. I'm a businessman who dresses well, smells great and knows how to be a gentleman...when it suits. Which is most of th...