Hi all we are happily ind married couple 33-27. New to this lifestyle. We are wanting to soft swap first to give it a go as we have never done this before. We after couples at this stage who can host us. Hubby is very comfortable. His ultimate goal is to watch wifey with another guy/girl/couple. He would never say no to getting involved. Wifey is a little shy and only ever been with hubby. That's whys she would prefer to soft swap first to she is she likes it. If you are willing to take it slow...