You’re waiting for the guy to suggest it. That’s why nothing much happens. You'll say that you don't know what you want. You have a vague idea of what you want. You just want to find someone non-judgemental who'll be willing to let you be You. You have fairly basic needs. You're not quite up to doing it in the backseat of a car, yet you're not particularly interested in participating in hours-long recreations of Roman orgies either. You're looking for an occasional shag. You also have some thing...