You're not particularly a Swinger and you don't necessarily crave sex all of the time. You're just looking for someone who'd be easy-going enough to be available whenever you did feel that need. You're stymied on here because, a. you don't want to pay the exorbitant joining fee and b. you're not really a Swinger type of person. You just want an occasional bonk, not an orgy. You'd like to have a guy involved from time-to-time, but you don't particularly need an hours-long, Olympic-level, sexual-e...