The only way that something will happen is by your being willing to have a conversation about it. Fantasy is great because it always delivers whereas real-life can be disappointing because people are unpredictable. There's no guarantee of success, whatever the 'success' is that you might be imagining... In reality all that you're looking for is someone who's non-judgemental; someone who'll take you as you are and who'll be amenable enough to let you attempt to replicate the version of You who's...