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 If you’d like to know more drop us a line. We didn’t reveal a lot about ourselves for you to read on purpose. Rather we chat, talk, engage in conversation to get to know each other instead of us reading through paragraphs of what most times turns out not to be inaccurate.

Ok… so let’s start with a basic intro:

We would like first to apologize for any typo’s we might have… As I must confess I’m the male writing this (I know… nobody’s perfect) and I’m pretty much new to writing things like this.

We thought we would throw in some keywords that would describe what we like to do. If you recognize yourself in some of them, we think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading our profile. If you don’t keep on reading, we swear we won’t be upset with you. We will never know anyway.

Travel, surprises, music, food, good conversations, last minute plans, open minds, craziness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, down to earth (however fantasy is also very important), sense of humor, MFM, FMFM, and FFM

We are an easy going couple who are happy in love but are wishing to explore our naughty fun sexy side with like minded people. Life is too short to worry about what some people may think it’s all about us.

So if we sound like a couple you would like to know more about drop us a line.

PS: Sorry but we would prefer people to be over the the age of 36, and we only play as a couple. 



WARNING: Any institution or  using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Auckland, New Zealand

updating profile all the details will be made into a short story soon

Auckland, New Zealand

I just love to explore sexual pleasures with like mindeds....take a journey of intimate and erotic pleasures....

Napier City, Hawke's Bay, New Zealand

Easy going guy looking for no strings mutual pleasure time wasters genuine people only let's chat and see where it goes 

Invercargill, Invercargill City, Southland, New Zealand

Well what can I say, I'm a laid back (but not so laid back I have no pulse) easy going kind of person, I'd like to think I'm normal but what exactly is normal anyway? I'm more looking for friends (with benefits would be a bonus), people of the same mind set.

Thanks for reading my profile, who knows what to really say, send me a message if you would like to know more.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy & will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Auckland, New Zealand

24 years together. Very secure in our relationship, fit, heathy and clean.

Looking for similar people to our selfs, people with some stability in there relationship and swinging for the right reasons.

We are not looking for quantity just looking for some people who are looking for a on going fun relationship in and out of the bed room

We are More than happy just to watch others and be watched by others and More with the right people!!

We are a professional couple, with busy lives so need to plan meeting others.

All so mrs F is very picky on who we meet and has the last say in what happens!

A good sence of humor is a must!!! 

People who can have a good laugh at them selfs and of course others!!

We would love to find for a very submissive kinky sexy lady, as we are both quite dominate.

Please feel free to message us and ask questions 

If we want a single guy we will let you know.

Please read out event!! 

Warning any institution that uses this profile for any reason, will be subject to legal proceedings!!!

You do not have our permission to use any of our profile or pictures or any other part of this add in any way.

Northland, New Zealand

*Make sure to read our House Rules at the end of our profile*

We are a happily married latino couple, being together for a long time. We love each other very much and love to have fun! We have experience with girls, couples and group sex. We are both professionals, well travelled and avid readers.

A little bit of him (by her)
Handsome, attractive, beautiful tanned skin... he really knows how to move in bed
and on the dance floor, also an expert on how to touch a woman's body.
He is the most passionate guy in the bedroom and loves to be in control,
my pleasure is his turn on. He has a strong medium build which feel so
masculine and sexy... when he hold me in his arms I can't avoid
surrender myself.

A little bit of her (by him)
She's a concentrated dose of sensuality and beauty. Dark hair, fair skin, and
the well-known latina curves. Once she reaches the right temperature,
she transforms into a wild animal, hungry for sex. She will get along
with the right guy. An amazing kisser, with soft lips, each kiss is a
step closer to paradise.

A little bit of both
We are good dancers, and have a high level of sexual chemistry. If you meet us, you will notice immediately. We workout 2-3 times a week and take care of our appearance.

What are we looking for?
We are actively looking for couples over 30 and invitations to parties. Experience doesn't matter, just willingness to play and have fun. It can go from same room sex up to full swap with the right people. We privilege chemistry over looks, so making that connection is key. If you are curious to know us, drop us a line. We always answer politely, and enjoy talking to people with experience in this lifestyle, or wanting to discover it.


Just to make sure you know about what we prefer and what is our process for looking for fun friends.

- EMAILS: Please email us with more than one line: although we feel flattered by your attention we prefer a real mail to a wink, please take a few minutes to make sure that you have read our profile and then drop us a personalised message if you think we are looking for the same things. We will take the time to email you back with a proper answer.

- PICTURES: We usually exchange body/face pictures before agreeing to meet, to ensure there is a minimum level of attraction, although we are more interested in the chemistry between people, which only can be determined when meeting face to face. Discretion is assured, as we expect the same.

-PLAY TIME: We don't play on the first meeting, as we don't like the pressure to decide on the spot. This also means that those messages "Let's have fun tonight" don't work with us.

Lower Hutt City, Wellington, New Zealand

hi, we are a open minded couple looking for couples and females to have fun with . We travel around nz and would like to meet up with others on our [removed] are NOT looking for single guys, if we want a single guy we would contact you.

We did not take a course in mind reading,so don't know what people are thinking, so if we send you an invite to meet, and don't get a reply we don't know if you forgot to reply or we're are not in the category you are looking for, so please those people who can read minds please answer ours because we cant.

Mount Wellington, Auckland, New Zealand

Hi there, thank you for looking at our profile. We have been on here a few times before but have to keep pulling back with other things going on in our lives. We have a reliable babysitter now so we are looking at becoming more active in the times ahead. 

We have been looking for a while but still consider ourselves new to the scene. We are a young married couple, very much in love and very sure about what we are after. We are not looking for that "spice" to save our relationship, we want to add others to enhance our own love making. 

We have nothing specific that we are after, we are very open to ideas and suggestions. All we ask for is a bit of mutual respect (trash talking straight away will get you blocked) and understanding that we play as a couple.

We are both very interested in older couples, so if you are putting off contacting us because you think we won't go for older couples please don't. We would love to hear from you.

Single males: Whilst we are open to the idea, we are not tripping over outselves to find anyone and most you aint anything special. If you are going to message us, at least come up with somethong original. Winks, random friend and album invites, and vulgar opening messages will get you the ban hammer.

Bi males: Mr can be...accomodating for the right people so feel free to try your luck. Trannys will have even more luck.

One last point. No B.S. please. Single males masquerading as couples will be ignored. (And it's obvious no matter how clever you think you are being) just be straight up and you will find us responsive. 

Thanks again for looking at our profile and we look forward to hearing from you.

(Pics are coming, Please be patient :) )

Palmerston North, Palmerston North City, Manawatu-Wanganui, New Zealand

Thanks for reading this and not just looking at the pics. We have been together for 14 years and have a great Sex Life. We are looking for Singles or Couples or a Bi-Curious/Sexual Guy that we can make a connection with first of all. She is bi-curious and would love to play alone with a woman and he wouldn't mind that either! Or if anyone wants to watch, that's fine too.


Looking for a few things & some are things are very different to others.  Please note I much enjoy vanilla sex (standard sex)  as well....

A little about me , European descent, educated, always busy with projects, love fitness and sports, discrete, clean and open minded 

I'm currently looking for a sub who I can train in the art of S and M...

Looking for like minded couples and singles for fun

this includes

-threesomes (mfm are a lot of fun) -outdoor sex/ nudity -dogging -vanilla sex -mutual masturbation -voyeurism -light cuckolding -dom/sub fun

Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

we are a happly married couple we really enjoy having alot of fun together in bed, we really enjoy our sex life but like to keep it hot and are thinking we may want to spice things up abit with a similar fun loving open minded couple

We are new to this and as of yet to swing but think we are ready to take to plung !!!

we are very open minded !!! we would be keen to catch up over net to start meeting similar married COUPLES for possible real life fun times so say whats up an we will see where we all end up

.......NO SINGLE MALES AT ALL ........

Hamilton, New Zealand

We are a couple who have a charter boat business that do adult parties in Auckland  we would love to hear from you if your interested in a fantastic erotic nite on our 4 level 50 ft luvboat please contact us at luvboat (Google us) and we can put you on our data base for future parties we are based in the viaduct and have a full bar ,dance floor and sexy erotic setting on the sea .look forward to hearing from you .

Auckland, New Zealand

I'm looking for like minded people to have very discreet and private nsa fun with I'm very clean and very respectful  with a gsoh 

New Plymouth, New Plymouth District, Taranaki, New Zealand

Young white male originally from SA. Looking for ladies or couples that are interested in some good clean fun. If you have a kinky side.....guess what.....I do too :-)

Very open-minded and easy to get along with.

Travel often from Palmy to Auckland and Hamilton for work so always keen to meet up with people, even for a drink or two.

Palmerston North, Palmerston North City, Manawatu-Wanganui, New Zealand

Hot couple looking for extra meat in the sandwich. They should be between 35 and 55 and have good skills in pampering ladies

What's with all the "Hey I like Your profile" is everyone too lazy to actually write something original that will entice a reply?

Auckland, New Zealand

Looking for attractive, polite, mature, discreet couple (or single female). 

Dunedin City, Otago, New Zealand

I'm a guy whose been through a lot of late. I would like to meet a straight female who is up front and honest, is there such a female like that I ask?.. ........

New Zealand


we are looking for a nice couple like us :)

Browns Bay, Auckland, New Zealand


Looking for younger, attractive couples to have a little naughty fun with or single ladies. GSOH is important to us. We find people who smile attractive!! After all this is supposed to be fun.

Happy to meet for a drink or at clubs

We don't feel we need to prove ourselves to anyone so if you feel like being pushy and rude please jog on and bother someone else.

We dont like Cybertrannies. in case you are wondering what these are please read below:


Man or women who pretends to be of the opposite sex on the internet, eg 18 year old Brenda turns out to be 35 stone tattoed American man called Jim-Bob. With his dead Mother in the fridge


Auckland, New Zealand

Hi - thanks for reading the words and not just looking at the photos.

We're a friendly non-pushy Scottish couple who have recently moved from England to New Zealand. We are now living in the Tauranga area. We are looking for primarily couples who would introduce us to swinging in New Zealand and perhaps give us some hints and tips on non-swinging aspects as well. From our profile pics and comments on our profile you can see that we are genuine and that we do actually meet and play. We do enjoy chatting online sometimes but it is meeting and playing in the real world that we find the most exciting.

We have been swinging in the UK for about five years and have met some wonderful people and had some great times. We have the same userid in the UK sister site. We should say, up front though, that we are only a soft swap couple. We may possibly progress to full swap if we met the right couple but right now we are happy with soft swap. We find it more relaxing and sexier and, of course, it is much safer. For us swinging is just a little extra fun. If all that happens when we meet another couple is we all have a few drinks and the girls flash their boobs then that to us is still a fun evening. We enjoy the social side of swinging and it's always nice to chat with open liberally minded people. Of course if we all get on then it's always nice to do a little stroking, sucking, licking and kissing too. We love it when it just feels right and we end up naked on the bed getting into combinations that we just couldn't do by ourselves.

In the looks and size department we're a fairly average couple with fairly average equipment (although Mrs Coder does have gorgeous boobs). We're looking for similar couples. And guys, protestations that you have a huge cock doesn't really do it for Mrs Coder. She says she has average size hands and an average sized mouth; why would she want a huge dick ?. Mr Coder is about 6" which fits her just fine thank-you.

If we sound like your type of people then get in touch and perhaps we can meet for a drink and see whether we all click.

Happy swinging,

Coders xx

P.S. Mrs Coder would love to try out a Sybian if anyone has one they would be willing to share.

P.P.S. We are not interested in Single Guys, Sorry, just not what we are looking for at the moment. However, we are happy to chat to you in the chatrooms if you like. Especially if you say something interesting. However, for those single males that don't seem to realize that couples get whispered dozens of times a day here are the answers to your first few questions....

1/ "How are you?" We are fine thank-you for asking

2/ "How is your day going ?" Our day is going great thanks

3/ "Who is there m or f?" We are both here but it is Mr who is typing

4/ "Where are you based?" Really? You can't even be bothered to get that far down the profile?

5/ "Nice pics, who is the girl with you?" We are glad you like the pictures but a) we are not going to tell you who we play with and b) it is not all the same girl but a selection of some of the couples that we have played with.

6/ "I would love to have an MFM with you, are you up for that?" I don't doubt that you fancy an MFM but as you can read in our profile we don't do that. And no, we haven't changed our minds since writing the profile.

7/ "Do you have a web cam?" Yes, in fact we have 5

8/ "Why don't you come on cam and show me your boobs, we can do it in a private room if you want" Does this ever work ?

9/ "What is a Sybian?" Why don't you show a little intelligence and Google it?

Tauranga, Tauranga City, Bay Of Plenty, New Zealand

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Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Just a guy who is openminded and lookin to hav some good times with other openminded people,online,e-mails or real life meets just whatever goes and hope that all are happy at the end of it all so lets chat for a start and lets see whats what.

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Looking to have some fun with single women and couples to join me and my partner.. Msg if your keen!

Grey Lynn, Auckland, New Zealand

Am just an admin

Auckland, New Zealand