Welcome to the House of Cuddles and Discipline

We are a private Swingers Venue based in Ashhurst, Manawatu. 

Hosting a variety of unique and thrilling events, from Swinging/ sex parties and BDSM evenings to social gatherings and renting the house out for private parties.

Step into a world where intrigue, eroticism, sensuality, and passion intertwine to create an unforgettable experience. The House of Cuddles and Discipline invites you to expand your horizons and peer over the edge where your deepest dreams can come to life. Our space is a safe, consensual haven designed for exploration and self-expression, welcoming all who enter with warmth and a non-judgmental embrace. There is never any pressure to play,  and NO DEFINITELY MEANS NO. A good standard of hygiene and being respect is essential. We kindly ask all guests to clean up after themselves.

These experiences cater to couples and select singles who cherish the vibrant social connections of the scene while craving the intimacy of playful settings. Our house boasts an array of seductive spaces, including three playrooms, three sex swings, an open play area with a libirator chaise if you are wanting an audience, two massage tables with hooks for stirrups, a cage with glory holes for men and other inviting social areas. Outside, enjoy a six-seat spa, a fire pit and a designated smoking area.

Our dress code aligns with the theme of each event, ensuring an immersive and exciting atmosphere. To join our exclusive gatherings, you must be a vetted member.

Please contact us to be vetted or if you know someone we know that can vouch for you, please ask them to do so.

Come, explore, and indulge in a world where your desires are celebrated in a friendly, open-hearted consenting community.

If you are into BDSM you may also try one of the four St. Andrew’s Crosses, a prayer and whipping bench.