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Forum Virgin
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Whats the pros and cons of an orgy

Warming the Bed
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Orgy:

1.a wild party characterized by excessive drinking and indiscriminate sexual activity

Indiscriminate sexual activity is not my cup of tea, I prefer to know my partners, so a definite con would be not having vetted and approved the participants.

Aside from the consent aspect of excessive drinking, of course.

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So your suggesting smaller parties where you keep more controll rather than larger ones which would be based on lust and desire. The problem I suppose is making sure they are all rubbered up.

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Thats another thing to add to bucket list lol

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Kiwiblue it's an interesting thing to add to the bucket list. I suppose it's just hard finding willing participants.

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Quote by Gooddane69

So your suggesting smaller parties where you keep more controll rather than larger ones which would be based on lust and desire. The problem I suppose is making sure they are all rubbered up.

A smaller gathering of known participants who have agreed - and can be trusted - to stick to the rules, allowing lust and desire to run free 😁

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Quote by Gooddane69

Whats the pros and cons of an orgy

Cum everywhere 😜

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Needs a strong confident organiser. To manage things, keep guys respectful, make sure the girls wishes are being meet (I.e she whispers to organiser guy “not him” then he takes care of it), makes sure there is no sneaky bareback going on. Makes it a fun time.

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Quote by Headmaster

Needs a strong confident organiser. To manage things, keep guys respectful, make sure the girls wishes are being meet (I.e she whispers to organiser guy “not him” then he takes care of it), makes sure there is no sneaky bareback going on. Makes it a fun time.

I am keen

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In an attempt to understand what is being asked heres my $85 worth as it is a great topic cheers Danes! What Headmaster describes is very much the catalyst of a successful event n describes in sense what can and should be done by the Host at a playmeet especially a gang bang its the whole reassurance thing. In relation to an orgy the build up of lust anticipation desire alot of times is created beforehand with discussion between the participants on 1 of the many social media platforms available not only to pic/vid sharepic but also to air all the does and don'ts. So that on arrival once formalities/house-rules are refreshed n had enough of licking your lips gazing across the room it's more or less a free for all. Your mere attendance is saying I like the look of the other couples I dont mind who does what where n how let's do it resulting in a mass of flesh n a mess of bodily fluids. Its an honesty call and you expect those attending to be clean n not carrying any other illnesses, that's probably the big downside and why its not for all n quite a small group really.. Other downside can be those who form a click turning it from an orgy to a normal play session or showing up drunk. It can get messy but not sure if "70 towels messy" like a host mentioned in chat last week. The right mix is crucial only takes 1 to be a pig n stuff it up n then as headmaster mentioned the host has a responsibility to sort. Suggestion: stick to hosting a play meet with however many and if it moves into the realm of an all out orgy then go with the flow. Not sure if that helps or gonna cause more contention happy to chat more here or private. The thought of wonton sex with variety of randoms can be quite sexy I might add. 😜