Cheers! A question mostly for the couples out there that are interested in playing with other men in some shape or form. But I’m curious about experiences from single and solo/hall-pass men.
And I want to state that everyone on KS deserves to want what they want; and avoid what they aren’t interested in. I always respect the preferences of others.
Couples on KS that are not interested in “single males”... I’ve always wondered if this is mostly the fact that a couple doesn’t wish to add just one M to their playtime (for instance, having an F for the male partner of the couple to enjoy), or if it’s a general assumption that a generic single male tends to act a certain way that is frequently unappealing to certain couples?
A good example I’ve seen (on an American swinger site’s forum) is the saying that “single guys are single for a reason”. Obviously a generalisation but - again - is perfectly fine for a couple to believe.
Interested to hear the perspective from couples on this. Would a “single male” be fine if they bring a female companion to the arena? Is a “hall-Pass hubby” different and okay because they aren’t officially “single”?
DISCLAIMER... as a “hall pass hubby” and “solo male”, I’m obviously curious about this on a personal level. I still won’t proposition couples not searching for SM’s, but I’m curious.