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Single Male vs Solo Male

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Cheers!   A question mostly for the couples out there that are interested in playing with other men in some shape or form.   But I’m curious about experiences from single and solo/hall-pass men.

And I want to state that everyone on KS deserves to want what they want; and avoid what they aren’t interested in.  I always respect the preferences of others.

Couples on KS that are not interested in “single males”... I’ve always wondered if this is mostly the fact that a couple doesn’t wish to add just one M to their playtime (for instance, having an F for the male partner of the couple to enjoy), or if it’s a general assumption that a generic single male tends to act a certain way that is frequently unappealing to certain couples?

A good example I’ve seen (on an American swinger site’s forum) is the saying that “single guys are single for a reason”.  Obviously a generalisation but - again - is perfectly fine for a couple to believe.

Interested to hear the perspective from couples on this.   Would a “single male” be fine if they bring a female companion to the arena?   Is a “hall-Pass hubby”  different and okay because they aren’t officially “single”?

DISCLAIMER... as a “hall pass hubby” and “solo male”, I’m obviously curious about this on a personal level.   I still won’t proposition couples not searching for SM’s, but I’m curious.

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We find a majority of the "single " males on this site are definitely single for a reason.  We have also found a lot of them are not actually single and are actually cheating on their wife's without a "hall pass" 

We have a open marriage and we both have hall passes.  We prefer to meet solo married men with hall passes.  It just keeps things more simple.