First Time Swap

Hey everyone,

Just wondering if people can remember the first time they did a full swap and how it felt.

My wife and i have had plenty of threesomes with girls and she doesn't mind watching me with the other girl.

However we have never done a swap so ive never seen her with another guy.

The though of it really turns me on but im not sure how i will feel in reallity.

Can others give their feelings of their first experiences.

Its a hard one. Because it's definitely easy to say you'll do it... and and when it comes to doing it.... it's easy to freak out. 

I recommend not doing it until you're absolutely sure that you're comfortable with it.

Or even have a safe word to end the whole encounter. 

I find watching my husband with another person hugely arousing. Watching another person being satisfied by someone who's mine..

On a page like this it's good. Because it's not a couple you know well and Are close friends with. So you don't have to encounter with them again if you choose not too.

I like this page because people on here don't take offense of you're not interested etc.

Happy swapping x

Everyone’s different on how they begin and it’s about being comfortable.  Some find this easier in arranging a meet with 1 couple but it in itself can be very stressful.  Another option is attending CCK on a couples/single women night or special event to observe the dynamics and observe closeup, communicating how it makes you feel watching others,  talking with others there about concerns yiu have and how they dealt with it just mingling and you never know when comfortable engage with another couple.  It’s daunting intially but in the end a safe polite friendly atmosphere.  Thought I’d throw that out there because it’s what really eased us into the lifestyle and we haven’t looked back no regrets.  Don’t rush!!