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Couple profiles are err missing something...

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Forum Virgin
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Is it just us, or is it weird the amount of couple profiles that are seeking to play as a couple that don't show any photos of the fella (Or just the one)??!!


We totally accept it is the couples prerogative to post that way.....but

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Any reasons why, that we newbies may not have considered??


Warming the Bed
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Maybe because she’s the attraction in most cases, the rest of us are along for the ride batting well above our weight and fear pics of us will discourage as opposed to attract the target species..........🥴

Warming the Bed
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Horny has nailed it on the head. A lot of guys have let themselves go ( me included) and any photos of them would discourage other couples from making contact.  We use to say to each other   if there's no photos of him, then there is a reason why.  And we have been proven right on many occasions.  

Only reason there is no public photos of me at the moment is we are not looking to meet couples. Any potential play friends for the Mrs don't give a stuff what I look like 🤣

Mr Intrepid 

Forum Virgin
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As a female I’d love to see more photos of guys!   I’ve not got the best body and we all have bits we aren’t happy with / guys you should share as it’s Delish seeing your bodies too!! 

Forum Virgin
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Im the male half and i do have photos of me. If some one does not like the look of me then we wont meet, everyone to their own. be proud of who you are as im no super model either.

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Personally for us it's because we have distinctive tattoos and would be instantly recognized. We own professional businesses and like to keep it discrete. Always happy to share pics once msgs exchanged though 🤷‍♀️

Forum Virgin
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The biggest issue with no male pics I have seen is a lot of couples are getting butt hurt when the start sending messages and the wife is not keen once we actually get to see photos of the male half, so many feeling can be saves by a couple simple photos.

Warming the Bed
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We don't have any of up of myself (male half) on ours, though it isn't because we are trying to hide the fact I'm a bigger guy. Its written right into the profile, twice, so there should be no surprises on that front! Our private album has heaps of me, and so we just share that upfront without wasting anybody's time. Some care, some don't, a select few are cruel (and just get blocked). I don't think a profile needs any photos publicly even, as long as there are photos of both that are shared immediately upfront. It'll probably diminish the chances though 🤣

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wow very nice photos

Warming the Bed
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Have to agree that no pics at all of him decreases the likelihood of my interacting with the profile, unless it's clear from the writeup that he's not involved in the play.

Not everyone puts as much weighting on physical looks, the in-person vibe and banter are much more important to me, but being attracted is a great start!

Just as offputting though is the number of dick pics. If the only pic of the guy is his cock, that's a no too. 🤣