Another fun topic and probably more a of a rant and an observational piece than my last post
As a reasonably mature person (age not mind set) and this being my third stint on here I have noticed the following.
Rejection does not hurt any less as you age, it still hurts, but the only way to get forward in life is to put yourself out there and deal with what comes.
Rejection here comes in many forms in here and I am yet to decide what one hurts less
- The Stone wall (aka the silent treatment, you'll be chatting away fine and then nothing bam stonewalled, or worse the sending of a face pic and stone wall).
- The Band aid maneuver straight up sorry I'm not attracted to you. polite but not offensive.
- The Fade out, the backing away over time then not contact.
- The Arsehole, the rude fuckers who should be shot.
There are probably more and feel free to suggest some that you have had.
Now don't get me wrong I think that Attraction is a key part of any encounter and everyone has the right to set there own standards, those who don't think so should be kicked in the bollocks/vag and I think both sexes here have the same issues. I myself have been in the position when I haven't found someone attractive at the meet that's life.
So my rules of conducted are:
- Put a decent amount of detail in your profile to allow people to get an idea of who you are and what your looking for.
- Don't Judge, you cant get the full story from that side of a key board.
- Be Polite, I am happy to chat with any of the peeps n freaks that are out there, it what you are asking for isn't my cup of tea I will let you know politely, and I am often happy to play along with what ever weirdness you have going on in chat world.
- Be honest, in the unlikely event that I don't find you attractive I will politely let you know, Id appreciate the same.
- Always reply, if someone takes the time to mail, chat, like etc on here i always like to reply if I can.
Note If I cut off mid chat, this is not me being intentionally rude, I am often here on my phone and I chat while doing other things, often those real world things take me away from KS.
Hapy hunting peeps n freaks... and say hi in the Pool if you see me.