What is bi to you

Question if two "straight" guys are involved in a mfm situation and their junk is is touching during a dp or they make eye contact during a spit roast (awful term btw) does that make them bi?, is there a cut off point ? When you enjoy it? let the fun begin..

I think we all have different ideas but mine would be... If a guy is attracted to other guys and could easily have a relationship with a guy or a woman then he is Bi. If he is keen to play with or has played with other guys either alone or in a mmf situation then he may be Bi Curious... I think two straight guys not purposely touching or looking at each other in a spit roast are still two straight guys.

Rose. x

Awesome Rose love that definition. Well considered and thought through.

My 2 cents.....(Mr Sparkles' by the way)....Bi sexual to me is sexually attracted and plays with either sex one on one or any other situation. Bi-curious....maybe but not quite open to playing mm...or only if she is present....which is quite annoying lol

another great pov Mr sparkles. For me the reason I have bi-curious down as opposed to fully bi is that I am still very much at the beginning of that sexual adventure and the idea of mm without and f is a little intimidating and a tad scary. Probably the same for a lot of others...

That's great to hear Soux, first time I have heard someone say that!! And that is genuine Bi-curious to me as well, on moving on from there I had to go to bi sexual...its still intriguing how each type of play has its own dynamic that is fun in its own right. Keep up the adventuring!!

live the KINK i say.. yes all about steps and phases.

I thought it would be far more intimidating to have a woman present as it would most probably turn into an MMF. Good to know though...

Once again...the dynamic.. MM, MMF, MFM....all different and their own fun

us guys can be just as insecure as the ladies. We try and hide it behind the bluster and bravado though.

Yes, each will find their own way in their own time, and well worth it too just quietly. Its taken me about 6 years to get to where I am now and still a lot of fun to be had yet!

Hi  yes  mrsparkles agree with  you  100%   each has  their  own way  and time, I have been bi-curious for  3 years now and enjoying it, playing only  with a couple where the  guy is Bi  and I am now ready  to have a one on one  with a guy

to me.. if a guy likes to play sexually with both male and/or female, he’s bi.. if he is in a relationship with a woman but wants to play sex games with a guy, he is bi but could be a closet homosexual.. if he wants a relationship with a guy he is a homosexual.. (i think) ? 

I have a married male friend who is allowed to play as long as she doesn't know them so he plays with guys only as it's hard for him to find a couple apart from us who she's vetoed.

id say he’s bi.. lucky he is supported by his wife.. she’s a keeper 

Ok, that's not what I meant.

what were u meaning?

He finally found a couple, and she won't let him.

Bi for me is i enjoy sex with a man and then i can have sex with a woman .

To me i feel complete.

What do people think of the term Bi friendly? For men who enjoy bi contact during MFM scenes, yet prefer not to participate one-on-one with men. They are well beyond the curious stage, but don't identify as fully bi.

HI Phantom, another interesting point of view, not sure aboptut the terminology but I understand the concer

As a newbie bi I see this as the ability to enjoy without apprehension the wondrous gift of loving both sexes. 

I like Distracted's reply. My view bi / bi-curious is the desire to play with the same sex, bi-friendly is accepting of play from the same sex without choosing to return the attention, and straight is just enjoying the experiences we can have, be it MFM, FMF MFMF etc without being hung up on it so our partner can enjoy those situations without actually being attracted to the same gender. Incidental contact is part and parcel of the play, but doesn't mean you're Bi because of it.

bi, if you like playing with both m and f. If you only play with guys (and your a guy) when f present, you are not curious, you are bi lol  ive had cocks touching etc while mfmf (both getting blow job at same time for example) , thats not bi thats not homo phobic lol actually its often been bloody funny

At the end of day"" you are you.

Unique and enjoy what ever you choose.

Brilliant mowman, great meeting people even just online here that are similar is hugely rewarding

Yes for sure.

As a recent bi male who was previously homo phobic I can see clearly now that all of us are naturally bi curious and it’s only the truly sexually liberated who are able to move past this phobia and experience the wonderful exhuberance that’s theirs to enjoy. A chance intriguing ad from a Tgirl was all it took to show me what I’d been missing for way too long. 

I consider myself as bi although men phyisically do not turn me on to look at. But cocks do. I love looking, touching, tasting, and feeling them inside me

The opposite of Hello?