Getting Started

5 likes 10 Oct 2011

Well, where to start! The forum seems a bit off the beaten track. All those young single blokes looking for anything with a pulse, the photo hunters and time wasters etc. are all looking at the pics and trying to get off remotely. So in all of this how dose a decent couple get some discrete fun? Discreet seems to be code for don't tell my wife! We have semi public jobs and ex partners, kids etc that we would prefer to keep this away from. Maybe there would be a few introduction couples that take you through things like a club of sorts. Do's and donts, the lingo and terms. If you are keen for your first bi experience it should be a nice gradual experience..

Unknown User

0 likes 10 Oct 2011

All good things take time. Some people jump straight on in and meet up right away, others ease into the lifestyle. Have you spent much time in the chatroom?

Unknown User

0 likes 11 Oct 2011

Yes it can be really tough to find couples to connect with,I'm not sure what it is about Wellington but on the surface everyone seems really keen then nothing happens. We have found one regular couple to play with so if you'd like to meet us,maybe for drinks like a meet and greet? And like I said in my message,we're happy to answer any questions you might have smile

tmlgn

Forum Virgin

0 likes 12 Oct 2011

hard to find anyone in the chatroom from dunners when we are on, most ppl we have played with have come from nights out at the pub or a party ot friends of friend etc. But chatroom still fun at times

Unknown User

1 like 30 Oct 2011

Our first time we were at the pub and a horny girl took advantage of the in the ladies. This opened a new world to us. The following weekend we meet up with her and a girlfriend of hers 's, we had a great time two girls in one room and myself and the other in another :swingingchair: We have meet couples through magazines and this website. Plus we did have friends that we had a benefits relationship with. The key is take it slow and go with the flow. wink

Friskyshane

Forum Virgin

1 like 24 Jan 2020

read the reply on how dose a discret couple find discret fun... how does a discret 'dreaded ' single man find some long term partners?

I mean I don't like being single.. but how to find a lady who would enjoy this world with me?

Only other option... and one that excites me is to join a couple.... lost

Interested_40s

Forum Virgin

2 likes 22 Jun 2021

Hello everyone. This has taken my wife and I a number of years to get to this point. Married. Happy. Looking for something. Not into singles at this point. Having enough of a drama boy on girl, let alone thinking about one other. We are excited to try something more. Just don't know what more is. Help?