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Hi . We are a relaxed couple that enjoy the company of other like minded people. Have had sum great fun in the past . We both enjoy other females and may play alone , looking to hear from people with the same interests. We are in Ashburton

Ashburton, Ashburton District, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hello everybody. Im an attractive, mid 40's bi guy looking for couples and single men and women to become involved with. I prefer long term casual connections but am happy with any arrangement you feel like. I love the outdoors, and try to spend a lot of time there as it recharges me. I live in Christchurch but I am happy to travel within the South Island to meet people I connect with. I'm a normal guy with a healthy open minded attitude to life/love/sex, and i am looking for the same. Im more than happy to talk or meet with anyone so long as they are genuine. I would love to chat about naturism/nudism as it is one of my interests.

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Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Looking for that little added spice with the promise you'll get that back for sure?, adventurous and confident in play you wont be dissapointed....been classed as a "pleaser" dont be afraid to message me xx discretion given and expected.

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

We're a down to earth, happily married couple with a little bit of experience looking to meet some fun people for hot sexy fun times.

We love same room full swap and do only play as a couple.

We try to look after ourselves and are attracted to folks who do the same. Big turn ons for us are intelligence, a good sense of humour, and a laid back attitude. Please have a clear face and body pic to share if you are genuinely interested in meeting for a drink or coffee and taking things from there...

Friend requests from members who don't bother to send a message will be ignored. Sorry, but really???

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

private good company guy,get on well with others, no hang ups, no bad habbits, clean heathly guy. looking for clps, or lady for adult fun

Canterbury, New Zealand

Fun loving, very discreet couple looking for like minded couples.    Reasonably new to this but looking to share our experiences and fun times. We  are not models and not looking for the perfect bodies, and age just a number.  We are ok with full swap, same house, doors open. Keen to travel for chat, drink and then see where things go.  We have our limits but all open to discussion. No single males thanks.  We kinda know why alot of you are still single lol. 

Canterbury, New Zealand
Looking for ladies. don't be shy -
We are a nice couple who are looking for girls for friendship and who are keen to have some fun with us.
Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

currently a chef in remote location the bealey just out of Arthur's pass so can always host in a safe enviroment but up for swinging good times by

7580, Bealey, Selwyn District, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi there,

Just looking to have a bit of fun here. Everyone is different and this seems like a great place to express yourself.

There are a couple of things that I would love to do so please feel free to ask me.

I have an open mind and love to please.


Christchurch, New Zealand
here for fun and goodtimes -
we are a bubbly household here to have fun and good times
Christchurch, New Zealand

We're a happily married looking for some new adventures. We love having new experiences together and are looking for like minded people to enjoy life with both in and out of the bedroom.  We're both very discreet, the same is a must.

We enjoy exploring the world of kink, watching, being watched ( Exhibitionism,Voyeurism,Dogging) but we are not looking for full swap

So, If you think we're a couple you'd be interested in let us know, we'd love to hear from you, what you're looking for, and a bit about you


Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Kaiapoi, New Zealand

we are an extremely happy married couple with a great sexual appetite looking for bi females and couples for some fun. We work out regularly and whilst not a must, great physical bodies is definitely a bonus. We are extremely discreet and expect the same. Cleanliness and hygiene is a must. A good sense of humour is always good. Mrs loves girls and although we haven't fully swung we would with the right couple. Love soft swing.  Looking for a bit of chat and if we hit it off maybe exchange face photos and meet somewhere.  Our home is not an option??

Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand
Seeking young lady to introduce to the sensual touch of another woman -
Hi, I'm a very experienced and sensual lover. I only just embraced this side of me 3yrs ago and now I can't be without it. I want to help other women discover it also. I'm patient and very ok with shy. We can go at your pace. Bring your man if you want and have one but he only gets to watch.
Woolston, Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Looking for a bi lady at present or hung guys

Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hello :wave:

Firstly, to all those who are.          " not looking for single guys " thanks for looking, by all means enjoy my genuine open minded pics, but sorry you are not what I'm looking for 

ME . . l'm a Relaxed,, open minded guy who enjoys getting up close and rather personal ;) with genuine adventurous others who are after the same.

My listed interests are just some of the things I like or would like to try, any fun and adventurous play is up for consideration ;)

Safe sex, discretion and cleanliness are a must for me and expected in return, a little effort to look and smell nice goes a long way to making meeting a pleasurable . . . .and hopefully very naughty experience . . . interested? message me . . . I dare you lol

Seriously tho happy  to chat to anyone  about anything ;) and please sexy people, chat with me before sending a friends request or it will be declined

Christchurch, New Zealand

Just looking for good clean fun with like minded people. Free & easy going. Just getting into cross dressing. Love to meet likewise

Rangiora, Waimakariri District, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi there... We're a married couple with kids, like to have the odd bit of discrete fun with similar minded people, preferably other couples... Was on here ages ago, had a load of fun meeting the odd person or two, went to a few naughty parties and had a load of fun and met loads of great people.

We're into lots of oral and toy fun, and same room playing and sharing, would like to meet a couple if you are into the same thing, although more than one couple, is also interesting...Or single girls who are into some girl on fun, while the hubby helps us out....the main thing we want is that we decide what we're willing to do and don't need to meet any pushy people. For us it's about fun within our relationship, and playing together is important.

Msg us and have a chat, you never know what we might get up to!

Single guys, don't bother. We can try any time we want at parties... and we have. If we want to try more, we'll get in touch with you.,,

Just to finish, if you think we've met at a party (we're quite often at Tawse and a few others) or you want to chat.... Well... 

Rangiora, Waimakariri District, Canterbury, New Zealand

Playfully exploring new adventures. Loving couple, been together for many years. I (male) am available for sexy confident ladies (single or attached) that want to experience something different for a change. Love giving long erotic massages, enjoy creating a safe experience for newbies. Full penetration only by request. No means no - always! Ladies rule.

Single, married or involved girls, age not important. Ladies are free to touch, feel and explore during play as much as they want to. Role-players very welcome and can be treated as a virgin, goddess, slut or whore. Toys welcome, no pain.

My girlfriend is not available and I mostly play alone, with her full support and knowledge and she will seldom if ever participate. She sometimes enjoys watching or getting off while I have sex with pretty girls or tease them. We share all sexual experiences we have with other people openly and freely with each other.

Discretion, cleanliness, hygiene and safe sex only.

Canterbury, New Zealand

We are looking for a single man or woman to get to know, form a genuine friendship with and have some fun... Preferably in their thirties, and local.

Would also be interested in  meeting some other couples for drinks who are new to this.

This is our first time, so we're not wanting to rush into anything.

Disclaimer: We have children.

Christchurch Central, Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand
Flirting Is Fun - Foreplay Can Be Better -
We are a passionate couple very much in love. We enjoy the spice we have together and on occassions like to broaden our horizons and have couples or fems join us for some good old fashion fun. If you have an interest say hello and lets see what can grow from it.
Timaru, New Zealand

curious couple looking for a couple for some same room soft swinging fun.

Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi all, thanks for taking a look. I'm a professional bloke, keep fit, clean and drug free. Love to watch either on cam or in the flesh and if your in the flesh, well woohoo! If you are keen on some very discreet fun or just want some horny messaging then I'm your man. I'm keen on one on one MMF or FFM (if I could ever be that lucky haha) if you want to drop me a line please feel free to do so. Thanks for looking and happy to send face pics if requested but expect the same in return

Rangiora, Waimakariri District, Canterbury, New Zealand

Happily married for many years with a young family. We have had a small amount of experience with other couples over the past few years. We like running and biking when time permits. Looking for friends with benefits , for on-going fun. on smokers. 30+ year olds. Couples. Not worried about people who over rate themselves as we are just your average kiwi couple.

Selwyn District, Canterbury, New Zealand

Mr PurpleDreamzzz has shot thru, so its just me now.  Men who are 45+ for fun & discreet times, non smokers thank you.  I am straight,  altho i love to kiss & touch, prefer well built men (90kg plus) but you never know. I am very sensual, love to be kissed, touched, and caressed. Go on stop by and say hi, no pic no meet.  Only a Basic Member now so only get to send 3 messages in 24hrs and if you don't say hi i can't chat to you, lol.

**WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have My permission to use any of My profile, My cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of My privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications** "It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well"

Canterbury, New Zealand

Relaxed, fun and easy going couple, mr is new to the scene where miss is a a bit more experienced. As a couple we enjoy light BDSM, toys and great sex. We are looking for other young couples or singles who are open minded, respectful and just looking to have a good time. We are clean and take pride in out appearance we would appreciate the same in whoever we meet. We only play as a couple. Looking forward to hearing from some fun people so get in touch.

Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand
free and fun -
un-attached couple looking for female for first threesome, must be fun and out going
Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi there.Thanks for looking at my profile.Bi guy here,love to meet couples and single.Very sport guy and very clean and discrete.Hit me up

Canterbury, New Zealand

Now with fun loving, adventurous bbw. looking to explore many experiences

Christchurch, New Zealand

Hi  hows it?? um im interested to meet a female to accompany me,well for to meet  a hot,well presented couple or couples , preferbally 20-55... Ive joined in  with a few m/f couples  in the past ,for mfm, always had so much fun


Canterbury, New Zealand
Love dogging -
Looking to meet up with like minded people for great fun
Christchurch, New Zealand
seeing whos there -
Mrs would like to be played with in front of her hubby. Happy for it to be with a male or female or couple aged between 20 and 55. Looks not so important but there must be an attraction. This will be our first time so may be slow for a start but are keen to try most things at least once. Looking to meet maybe June or July.
Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi There,

Thanks for looking. Looking for some adult fun with like minded couple or female. Had some experience with mfm and would love to experience further.

Love to chat and get to know people on here...please no guys, I'm not bi..

Christchurch, New Zealand
keen to have fun -
im interested in naughty hot woman that know wat there doing..
Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi Guys,

I'm new to this but I'm keen to try out some new things and get some new experiences. I'm happily single, keen, discrete and well hung looking to meet single ladies or couples for a bit of fun. Safe sex is a must for me.

Have a look at my profile and pics and send me a message if you're interested - lets all get out there and experience life!

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

I have a pretty laid back by nature and easy going and like going with the flow. I try to keep in shape but don't go too overboard on that. I like to have fun and enjoy ... well .. everything.

I think I need to add that I love to chat ... I believe that I may even talk out my arse at times but hopefully it is amusing, or perhaps, a little bit funny at times. I'm highly discreet, and discretion is a must. 

Oh send me a mail ... I'm sure at least there is one out there who can entertain .... yes it is a challenge to you wink.gif

Christchurch, New Zealand
young fit and new at this -
we are new at this and wanting to have some fun
Canterbury, New Zealand

 we are looking to meet other cpls for some fun times , winter is here so what about joining us for some spa fun

 , life is short lets have a bit of fun, we do travel round south island quite a lot so get in touch we maybe able to catch up for a few drinks don't be shy contact us now. looking for cpls for friendship and fun

Ashburton, New Zealand

I LOVE COCKS!!!!!! More the merrier

Sorry, men only, no females/couples. Need to see face pic before even considering meeting

Like: sucking cock, licking cock, teasing cock, stroking cock, rubbing cock, pumping cock, riding cock, being fucked doggie, just good old fashioned fucking

Dislike: Anal, pain, bdsm, ropes, water sports, and I don't squirt

Guys - I do not want to hear about your other conquests (I can get a little jealous!), multiple female fantasies, nor do I have girlfriends to play with

Fastest way to turn me OFF is to ask what I'm wearing!

NO SMOKERS, sorry (unless you're drop dead gorgeous!)

Will only accept friend requests from those I've chatted to or seen face pic

Love to read the feedback left on pics, nice to know if they are ok or not

Canterbury, New Zealand

We are a happily married couple, interested in spicing things up a little. As yet, we haven't played outside our marriage, but looking to explore some of our fantasises. She is bi-curious and wanting to explore that.

Discretion is important, as we have children.

Ashburton, New Zealand

Looking to see what takes my fancy. Would like to meet larger ladies for fun times and or friendship.

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Right so about me. 

Single straight white male, non smoker looking for females and couples of any persuasion who also don't smoke (exceptions may be made) for fun times,regular or otherwise.

What I'm into and what I've done. Well this isn't my first rodeo of fun times. Lived overseas and while I was there I was introduced to swinging and sex clubs. All I can say is what an awesome time all those visits were. 

Single ladies. I'd love to have a regular playmate who is open for exploration as I have a few things to tick off in playing terms. 

Happy to play with couples and pleasure wifey with hubby as well as take care of wifey while hubby watches. I'm comfortable in my own skin. Happy for it to be filmed/photographed if so desired. 

Any questions feel free to ask.

Christchurch, Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hey there we are pretty normal down to earth people, That sometimes like to be a little naughty ;-)

We like to have a few drinks, Spa, and meet new people. If you're easy going and that sounds interesting drop us a line ;-)

A n A x

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy & will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Christchurch, New Zealand

I am a single guy exploring things and trying to have some harmless fun, whether by chatting online, flirting, socialising or taking things further. I am mainly interested in a single female or helping out with the female half of a couple. I am always happy to meet and see if we are compatible.

Finding a regular female to go and do things with would be great but I will take things as they come.

Addington, Christchurch, New Zealand

We have met the odd couple and a few single guys by now.

With a couple, we would like to swap partners and enjoy watching the other. She also likes playing with another woman.

With a single man or a group of men, she enjoys getting fucked by them, and he likes watching her or taking turns fucking her too.

We're also looking for a single woman, who would like to join us on a regular basis.

And, for the right single male that ticks all the boxes, we (she) won't say no.

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

We are a fun couple looking for another female or couple to join in. We are looking for friendship and who knows what could happen. Please NO SINGLE GUYS as we aren't interested. Also we play together only. If you're under 45 and interested drop us a message.

Christchurch, New Zealand

Hi fit , clean an laid back guy keen for some hassle free fun in canterbury with women an couples only ....

Message me for more:-)

Canterbury, New Zealand

Welcome to my profile happy.gif I'm just a easy going single guy looking for some fun.

Been on and off dating sites for far too long and tired of looking so here I am on here...

I'm into fun, open, spontaneous woman who aren’t afraid to say what’s on their mind.

Perfect evening: candlelit dinner, bubble bath for 2, looong slooow oily massage ... then Ooh là là 

I love ladies bodies, watching/making them cum, preferably several times....

Also as above I'm into long slow oily massages, sometimes with hot rocks sometimes not, just love the feel of smooth oily skin under my hands .... Interested Huh?

There must be a physical attraction in the first place, both ways. I'm not a ‘wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am’ kinda guy. I like to get to know a lady first and if the chemistry is right ... then hang on for the ride.

I like experiencing the full act, I don’t do things by half. I like it long and slow, Oh and ladies first, always 

Looking for an equal participant, someone who likes giving as well as receiving, not too serious and likes having fun.

Also I'm into photography so anyone, singles, couples, other, if you'd like keepsakes let me know and we'll see if we can arrange a meeting and of course, discretion always assured.

Note to all the 'single males' who keep looking at my profile ... I'm not interested, never will be!! to the single 'straight' males, why are you looking at other males profiles if you are straight? 

Thought I'd better add this as well:

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

I am new to being single. I am not looking for love or for just a hook up. I would ideally like someone who wants to be friends with benefits someone  to hang out with, and to share the mundane day to day things.

I enjoy the simple things in life watching movies or out on the town with a few drinks and lots of dancing. 

I am not barbie and have not intention of looking like he. I am comfortable with who i am and what i look like. If you don't like comfortable then please don't make contact. If you don't have a sense of humor then the same applies.

Guys please if you are under 30/35, married or its complicated please not bother getting in contact i am not a stop gap or fill in, its not going to happen. Please Do not message me and ask me to watch u having a tug, if i want to see it i will turn my cam on.

Please note i do have a regular FB who may or may not want to be part of it.

Christchurch, New Zealand

Expats recently returned home!! And it's so good to be back! welcome.gif

***  ***  Before we go any further:

Please  -  Definitely No Single (Straight) Males; Everyone else - we'd love to hear from you  ...  ...  introduce yourselves; have pics of both of you - we do!; we are not into just meet and fuck - so if you are, we are not for you; we love intelligent conversation; and we only play together. Please don't take this as being insensitive or bigoted, we are a very open and progressive minded couple - just not into wasting anyone's time!!

An excerpt from our recent Relationship Blog:

"All relationships require some measure of reciprocity. Sex partners should enrich each other’s experience not merely perform, otherwise ‘objectified’ becomes the result and the woman feels used - not necessarily abused, but used and it is as if she was there merely to be the chattel for being fucked. If this is the case and since brothels are legalised in this country, they are an option for the aggressive male. Don’t bring it on my wife/partner.

Treating your sex partner with respect, reverence, kindness and caring – that’s where the magic of pleasure begins. And this is precisely where we as a couple in the lifestyle fit in! 

We just love the friendship aspects of this style of life, talking openly and being ‘sassy’; meeting for a meal or drinks with our friends when the meeting is not just a means to an end but rather is the ‘end’; just sitting around talking with no sex involved; the soft-sex times; interesting and intelligent conversation and storytelling; pash-ups in the kitchen; a good old ‘scrag’ on the living room floor; our hot-tub sessions; sex under the stars; romance and foreplay; naturally bedroom play; the occasional pink bum; puppy piles when no one knows whose hand is on whom or on what; not really into one nighters except when we are travelling; and generally as we say, ‘to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us.’

So what do we ideally look for in this way of a modern open and accepting life?

Ideally, we look for like minded intelligent couples that love and respect their partner and are ready to enjoy new friendships and relationships in and out of the bedroom.

We are a fun loving, mature, professional couple with an incredible group of friends all over the world – aged from 28 to late 70’s and across the full culture, social and economic spectrum of life – after all, it’s the individual that counts  ...  ... the people we have great synergy with tend to be friendly and social; open minded rather than hard-core; laughing rather than full-on intensity; intelligent and interesting; no pressure or drama; are not aggressive and have absolute respect for the individual. And we are quite happy to lead those feeling their way. We are not a pressure, must fuck couple!

Aggression is not on our list! In fact, a partner that turns out to be aggressive is afterwards picked up by the collar and flicked like a weasel into the disregard-until-change bucket!

We enjoy hosting compatible travellers from out-of-town with no pressure, no expectations and definitely with no strings attached!

We know from our experience this scene is amazing for the deep friendships one can form with friends from near and far - and the benefits are definitely a plus!"


We are professionals - proudly own our businesses - into good friends first and see what follows when synergy is right; after years of experience we will always regard ourselves as learners! We are looking to extend our friendship to compatible couples - friendly, easy going and open with a sound, secure relationship who could become good friends - socialize, meet and have fun even when sex is not involved. So if you are looking for something more and want to have good friends like we do - let's talk, get together and hopefully, more ... ... !!

We believe that sex and sexual love are fundamental forces for good – activities with the potential to strengthen intimate bonds, enhance lives, create spiritual awareness, and even change the world (hey, hey!). We believe that all consensual sexual choices have these potentials – that any sexual pathway, consciously chosen and mindfully followed can be a positive, creative force in the lives of individuals.

We see ourselves as a couple committed to freeing ourselves to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us - for sharing is what makes the world a better place. We may not always know what fits until we try it, so we tend to be curious and adventurous.

We are very discrete, selective, clean/healthy, V-Safe and clean shaven (in the right places!) so if you think we have a good deal in common and definitively could be compatible … … would love to make contact with you. We are definitely against bed-hopping or ‘pushy’ contacts. We only play together.

Although ‘mature-ish’ we have friends of all ages including a ‘young’ circle!

The first meeting is always no pressure, no commitment – a date to talk and see if there is that magic and then take it as it comes!! So, even if you are just exploring this open and freeing lifestyle, we are open to Talk - and understanding!

We have traveled extensively - returned home from the USA to Canterbury in October 2015 - and lived/worked/taught on 4 continents! This has not only given us a very open and aware attitude but has taught us total respect for the individual – irrespective!

We embrace the lifestyle as a very healthy, normal way for people to be. We enjoy the openness and freedom. We would like to create a network of supportive, like minded people that we can be friends with!

As we said, the first meeting is always no pressure, no commitment – a date to talk and see if there is that magic and then take it as it comes!!

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand

Seeking for new friends, emotions and adventures. Very active and sporty, open to new challenges and opportunities.

Christchurch City, Canterbury, New Zealand