Arty,sensual,athletic,tall.....broad chest & shoulders.
Luv a pinch of kinky sex....even watersports..... outside of course

Personality could best be described as"not meat & three veg"

Into river/sea kayaking,tramping,swimming...retro classic cars/restoration

Am a politically incorrect kinda guy!!:

Hi, professional, clean, discreet, respectful. I have had a fair bit of swinging experience but am always keen for new adventures. I have a great sense of humour and always happy to have a laugh. Looking for fun with couples but also keen to try other scenarios and open to suggestions. Love to meet for a drink/coffee and see how we go from there.

hay -

couple looking for fun and new things mite need a little help getting in to things but looking forward to it

We have met the odd couple and a few single guys by now.

With a couple, we would like to swap partners and enjoy watching the other. She also likes playing with another woman.

With a single man or a group of men, she enjoys getting fucked by them, and he likes watching her or taking turns fucking her too.

We're also looking for a single woman, who would like to join us on a regular basis.

And, for the right single male that ticks all the boxes, we (she) won't say no.

Christchurch couple looking for fun with the right person or people. We are a sensuous couple and like to have sex with a variety of (the right) people. We are happy to meet first for a drink and a surreptitious perv before all making our minds up. There's little point contacting us if you don't have any photos. Single guys, don't bother. We may be interested but that said, we will contact you if we find what we are looking for. Please don't ask to be our 'friend' with no message and/or no prior contact.

If you've read this far, re-read the last sentence. A lot of people out there are either illiterate or dumb.

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Seeking very respectable, clean male to join us. Must be willing to take wife in front of Husband & allow it to be filmed for our own private use.

Must be willing to send face photo as wife has to have an attraction to you !! 

Basically we are looking for a regular fuck buddy between the ages of 36yr - 58yr.

I LOVE COCKS!!!!!! More the merrier

Sorry, men only, no females/couples. Need to see face pic before even considering meeting

Like: sucking cock, licking cock, teasing cock, stroking cock, rubbing cock, pumping cock, riding cock, being fucked doggie, just good old fashioned fucking

Dislike: Anal, pain, bdsm, ropes, water sports, and I don't squirt

Guys - Do not talk about other females, even in passing! I do not want to hear about your other conquests (I can get a little jealous!), multiple female fantasies, nor do I have girlfriends to play with

Fastest way to turn me OFF is to ask what I'm wearing!

NO SMOKERS, sorry (unless you're drop dead gorgeous!)

Will only accept friend requests from those I've chatted to or seen face pic

Love to read the feedback left on pics, nice to know if they are ok or not

Hi Guys,

I'm new to this but I'm keen to try out some new things and get some new experiences. I'm happily single, keen, discrete and well hung looking to meet single ladies or couples for a bit of fun. Safe sex is a must for me.

Have a look at my profile and pics and send me a message if you're interested - lets all get out there and experience life!

Looking for a bi lady at present or hung guys

Flirting Is Fun - Foreplay Can Be Better -

We are a passionate couple very much in love. We enjoy the spice we have together and on occassions like to broaden our horizons and have couples or fems join us for some good old fashion fun. If you have an interest say hello and lets see what can grow from it.

I have a pretty laid back by nature and easy going and like going with the flow. I try to keep in shape but don't go too overboard on that. I like to have fun and enjoy ... well .. everything.

I think I need to add that I love to chat ... I believe that I may even talk out my arse at times but hopefully it is amusing, or perhaps, a little bit funny at times. I'm highly discreet, and discretion is a must. 

Oh send me a mail ... I'm sure at least there is one out there who can entertain .... yes it is a challenge to you wink.gif

we are an extremely happy married couple with a great sexual appetite looking for bi females and couples for some fun. We work out regularly and whilst not a must, great physical bodies is definitely a bonus. We are extremely discreet and expect the same. Cleanliness and hygiene is a must. A good sense of humour is always good. Mrs loves girls and although we haven't fully swung we would with the right couple. Love soft swing.  Looking for a bit of chat and if we hit it off maybe exchange face photos and meet somewhere.  Our home is not an option??

Happily married for many years with a young family. We have had a small amount of experience with other couples over the past few years. We like running and biking when time permits. Looking for friends with benefits , for on-going fun. no smokers. 30+ year olds. Couples. Not worried about people who over rate themselves as we are just your average kiwi couple.

Looking for fun -

Just out for some fun with like minded men, ladies, couples. looking for erotic chat and see where it goes.

hi there...

I am professional, discrete and relaxed, like most on here not interested in stressy or high maintenance situations or people.

In an open relationship and looking for opportunities mostly with couples but also females who are into having great fun with open minds and a passion for life...

I am more interested on creating mutual trust, when we meet if we click, I am keen on having the friendship and see where that lead us, connection and chemistry are very important to me. I like nice things and nice people.

About me:

NZ European


Height 6'2"

Weight 95kg

short hair, Easy on the eyes (I have been told)

Great personal hygiene, always smell good, drug free

Well groomed, traveled & dressed

I have no tattoos and I am a non smoker

I have a somewhat wicked, sense of humor and can be reserved, I can also be forceful when required and requested...

Interested on meeting like-minded and sexually liberated ladies/couples. I believe sex is an event that should be passionate and all-consuming.

I believe that looks and sex appeal in these situations are very important...

discretion, expected and given.

Relaxed, fun and easy going couple, as a couple we enjoy light BDSM, toys and great sex. We are looking for other young couples or singles who are open minded, respectful and just looking to have a good time. We are clean and take pride in out appearance we would appreciate the same in whoever we meet. We only play as a couple. Looking forward to hearing from some fun people so get in touch.

Mr is a hard working guy into rugby and the odd beer, Can be a bit reserved at first but comes out of his shell quickly, loves to joke at Mrs expense, very relaxed and goes with the flow but knows what he wants out of this experience, enjoys kink, Very much straight.

Mrs, no shit talking kind of girl, knows what she wants and knows how to get it, never a communication problem with her. Enjoys everything kinky and enjoys being sub, a bit of a control freak during the day due to her job so likes the tables to be turned during fun. has no issue with being dominant, thats if you can handle her. wouldnt call her bi but would call her straight either. Hates cats.

As a couple we are very aware of what we want, anything from soft swap to full swap, we love to go out for a few drinks, and enjoy a meal out, we live a very busy lifestyle and work strange hours due to our career choices but enjoy some kinky fun in between. We are regular party goers to swing parties, we find it is a good way to meet new couples and love some of the kink that goes down.

We are after another young clean and discreet couple or single, who enjoys going out and socialising, We are looking for a regular playmates to play with but doesn't expect to be committed. we are looking for someone who enjoys the same things as us as we want a friendship out of this too. 


  we are  looking to meet other cpls for some fun times , winter is here so what about joining us for some spa fun

 , life is short lets have a bit of fun, we do travel round south island quite a lot so get in touch we maybe able to catch up for a few drinks don't be shy contact us now. looking for cpls for friendship and fun

Hot horny well hung looking for fun -

Hi all you bi and straight lady's out there in Christchurch That have nothing to do to night and tomorrow That are at a loose end ,bored please make contact with me and let me put some excitement in to your weekend I am well hung hot horny and rearing to go Also can accommodate I look forward to hearing from you

Hi . We are a relaxed couple that enjoy the company of other like minded people. Have had sum great fun in the past . We both enjoy other females and may play alone , looking to hear from people with the same interests. We are in Ashburton

Have not been an active member until now.  Looking to turn my fantasies into reality.   Professional guy regular visitor to Auckland and available day or night to meet up with a straight female or straight couple for coffee/wine and a chat or in Christchurch for daytime meets,  .  See where it goes.  Broadminded but not bi or bi curious in any way.    Clean, well groomed and discretion a must.    

hi there 51m here single live alone and have own place in chch, love to give massage for reward, im open minded and curious for  discreet and respectful times, have exp some cpl fun also which i really enjoyed, love to chat see if we click 

cody xxx


Welcome to my profile happy.gif I'm just a easy going single guy looking for some fun.

Been on and off dating sites for far too long and tired of looking so here I am on here...

I'm into fun, open, spontaneous woman who aren’t afraid to say what’s on their mind.

Perfect evening: candlelit dinner, bubble bath for 2, looong slooow oily massage ... then Ooh là là 

I love ladies bodies, watching/making them cum, preferably several times....

Also as above I'm into long slow oily massages, sometimes with hot rocks sometimes not, just love the feel of smooth oily skin under my hands .... Interested Huh?

There must be a physical attraction in the first place, both ways. I'm not a ‘wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am’ kinda guy. I like to get to know a lady first and if the chemistry is right ... then hang on for the ride.

I like experiencing the full act, I don’t do things by half. I like it long and slow, Oh and ladies first, always 

Looking for an equal participant, someone who likes giving as well as receiving, not too serious and likes having fun.

Also I'm into photography so anyone, singles, couples, other, if you'd like keepsakes let me know and we'll see if we can arrange a meeting and of course, discretion always assured.

Note to all the 'single males' who keep looking at my profile ... I'm not interested, never will be!! to the single 'straight' males, why are you looking at other males profiles if you are straight? 

Thought I'd better add this as well:

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Seeking for new friends, emotions and adventures. Very active and sporty, open to new challenges and opportunities.

Hi I'm a professional male looking around for excitement and new adventures, I can be Dom when i need and want to be , but open to all and  enjoy all situations mfm , mff , mfmf etc , very relaxed and laid back, kinky and enjoy a good time.happy.gif Love role play too !! 

Travel the country for work often in Wellington and Dunedin as well. 

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current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious
violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramificationsokk

We're a happily married looking for some new adventures. We love having new experiences together and are looking for like minded people to enjoy life with both in and out of the bedroom.  We're both very discreet, the same is a must.

We enjoy exploring the world of kink, watching, being watched ( Exhibitionism,Voyeurism,Dogging) but we are not looking for full swap

So, If you think we're a couple you'd be interested in let us know, we'd love to hear from you, what you're looking for, and a bit about you

P.S mrs enjoys watching guys cum on cam for her  


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***It's got t that time of the year again and we're overloaded with work--- so no time to play, until May! But we're happy to chat!***

Hi there... We're a married couple with kids, like to have the odd bit of discrete fun with similar minded people, preferably other couples... Was on here ages ago, had a load of fun meeting the odd person or two, went to a few naughty parties and had a load of fun and met loads of great people.

We're into lots of oral and toy fun, and same room playing and sharing, would like to meet a couple if you are into the same thing, although more than one couple, is also interesting...Or single girls who are into some girl on fun, while the hubby helps us out....the main thing we want is that we decide what we're willing to do and don't need to meet any pushy people. For us it's about fun within our relationship, and playing together is important.

Msg us and have a chat, you never know what we might get up to!

Single guys, don't bother. We can try any time we want at parties... and we have. If we want to try more, we'll get in touch with you.,,

Just to finish, if you think we've met at a party (we were quite often at Tawse and a few others) or you want to chat.... Well... send a message!

Well , I hate talking about myself , but here we go .

I am in a new relationship with a lady and no longer looking for anything at all

I want honesty  ( seems to be in short supply  these days ) a sense of adventure and humor ., chatting on message boards , a meet and coffee .to break the ice. If you cannot be honest  and reply  to messages ,or turn up to meets , don't waste ours and your time .I am a Dominant  with a submissive , and can train or mentor doms and Fem-Domme's as well .

We see ourselves as a couple committed to freeing ourselves to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us - for sharing is what makes the world a better place. We may not always know what fits until we try it, so we tend to be curious and adventurous.   welcome.gif

***  ***  Before we go any further:

Please  -  Definitely No Single (Straight) Males; Everyone else - we'd love to hear from you  ...  ...  introduce yourselves; have pics of both of you - we do!; we are not into just meet and fuck - so if you are, we are not for you; we love intelligent conversation; and we only play together. Please don't take this as being insensitive or bigoted, we are a very open and progressive minded couple - just not into wasting anyone's time!!

An excerpt from our recent Relationship Blog:

"All relationships require some measure of reciprocity. Sex partners should enrich each other’s experience not merely perform, otherwise ‘objectified’ becomes the result and the woman feels used - not necessarily abused, but used and it is as if she was there merely to be the chattel for being fucked. If this is the case and since brothels are legalised in this country, they are an option for the aggressive male. Don’t bring it on my wife/partner.

Treating your sex partner with respect, reverence, kindness and caring – that’s where the magic of pleasure begins. And this is precisely where we as a couple in the lifestyle fit in! 

We just love the friendship aspects of this style of life, talking openly and being ‘sassy’; meeting for a meal or drinks with our friends when the meeting is not just a means to an end but rather is the ‘end’; just sitting around talking with no sex involved; the soft-sex times; interesting and intelligent conversation and storytelling; pash-ups in the kitchen; a good old ‘scrag’ on the living room floor; our hot-tub sessions; sex under the stars; romance and foreplay; naturally bedroom play; the occasional pink bum; puppy piles when no one knows whose hand is on whom or on what; not really into one nighters except when we are travelling; and generally as we say, ‘to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us.’

So what do we ideally look for in this way of a modern open and accepting life?

Ideally, we look for like minded intelligent couples that love and respect their partner and are ready to enjoy new friendships and relationships in and out of the bedroom.

We are a fun loving, mature, professional couple with an incredible group of friends all over the world – aged from 28 to late 70’s and across the full culture, social and economic spectrum of life – after all, it’s the individual that counts  ...  ... the people we have great synergy with tend to be friendly and social; open minded rather than hard-core; laughing rather than full-on intensity; intelligent and interesting; no pressure or drama; are not aggressive and have absolute respect for the individual. And we are quite happy to lead those feeling their way. We are not a pressure, must fuck couple!

Aggression is not on our list! In fact, a partner that turns out to be aggressive is afterwards picked up by the collar and flicked like a weasel into the disregard-until-change bucket!

We enjoy hosting compatible travellers from out-of-town with no pressure, no expectations and definitely with no strings attached!

We know from our experience this scene is amazing for the deep friendships one can form with friends from near and far - and the benefits are definitely a plus!"


We are professionals - proudly own our businesses - into good friends first and see what follows when synergy is right; after years of experience we will always regard ourselves as learners! We are looking to extend our friendship to compatible couples - friendly, easy going and open with a sound, secure relationship who could become good friends - socialize, meet and have fun even when sex is not involved. So if you are looking for something more and want to have good friends like we do - let's talk, get together and hopefully, more ... ... !!

We believe that sex and sexual love are fundamental forces for good – activities with the potential to strengthen intimate bonds, enhance lives, create spiritual awareness, and even change the world (hey, hey!). We believe that all consensual sexual choices have these potentials – that any sexual pathway, consciously chosen and mindfully followed can be a positive, creative force in the lives of individuals.

We see ourselves as a couple committed to freeing ourselves to enjoy our sexuality and to share it in as many ways as may fit for us - for sharing is what makes the world a better place. We may not always know what fits until we try it, so we tend to be curious and adventurous.

We are very discrete, selective, clean/healthy, V-Safe and clean shaven (in the right places!) so if you think we have a good deal in common and definitively could be compatible … … would love to make contact with you. We are definitely against bed-hopping or ‘pushy’ contacts. We only play together.

Although ‘mature-ish’ we have friends of all ages including a ‘young’ circle!

The first meeting is always no pressure, no commitment – a date to talk and see if there is that magic and then take it as it comes!! So, even if you are just exploring this open and freeing lifestyle, we are open to Talk - and understanding!

We have traveled extensively - returned home from the USA to Canterbury in October 2015 - and lived/worked/taught on 4 continents! This has not only given us a very open and aware attitude but has taught us total respect for the individual – irrespective!

We embrace the lifestyle as a very healthy, normal way for people to be. We enjoy the openness and freedom. We would like to create a network of supportive, like minded people that we can be friends with!

As we said, the first meeting is always no pressure, no commitment – a date to talk and see if there is that magic and then take it as it comes!!

Adventurous playmate couple, both looking to explore either together or separately. Enjoy full interactivity with non pushy people we have fun with.  

Looking for ladies. don't be shy -

We are a nice couple who are looking for girls for friendship and who are keen to have some fun with us.

Plays well with others :) Looking for NSA fun. Professional sorted guy respectful and I am not judgmental of your circumstances I'm here for fun and mutual enjoyment. I am bi.

I am a fit, active, openminded, adventurous straight guy who keeps in shape and have many interests including good food, good coffee, good wine, good company and I am comfortable in most social situations. (In other words I can communicate! :-) )

I am into no strings attached fun but a certain level of connection is great. Looking for other open minded friends and contacts.

I am fortunate to travel in my job so if you are looking through this ramble dont be put off getting in touch because of your location....

I do love the female form and am always willing to give and love to satisfy....... :-)

Talk soon...dont be shy :-) x

Looking for fun and passion - I love to please. Giver of fantastic massage (oil has to be hot) and just love love love giving pleasure.

See what happens ...

Hi There,

Thanks for looking. Looking for some adult fun with like minded couple or female. Had some experience with mfm and would love to experience further.

Love to chat and get to know people on here...please no guys, I'm not bi..

I would like to meet a couple or couples that I can join or will join me in conversation, meals and other activities with the knowledge that at the end of the day we may also enjoy each other sexually. I am interested in soft, gentle, soothing, sex. I would enjoy watching a couple that are friends having loving sex and want me to join them to enhance their experience. I would also like to find a lady to join me as a partner for parties and threesomes MMF, FFM and swapping. Partner needs to be a woman who is loving, caring, understanding, willing and able to also join in conversations as well as sexual activities. I have said a lot about what I would like but I am also interested in what you want. Physical attributes are not as important as mental attitude cleanliness and discretion. If I sound like someone you may like to get to know a bit more about send me a note and we can start a conversation that could go anywhere. Well here is hoping you find this interesting enough to respond!

Sick of the same old thing - seeking something different, I am keen to explore - open to ideas.

BBW so if you like stick figures then I'm not your girl.

Don't ask for a face pic before I have seen yours - your face pic might get my attention (but no guarantee if your not what I'm looking for) - chances are if you don't - I wont reply. And no I don't have a place to play - and I can't always get out just when it suits you, I need to plan these things.

I'm not here to be judged, so if you have a problem with me - keep it to yourself!

Will consider people between the ages of 30 and 55 

Seeking no strings fun.

Someone who gives not just takes.

Good sense of humor.

Must have or be able to provide a place to play if we decide to take it to that stage.

seeing whos there -

Mrs would like to be played with in front of her hubby. Happy for it to be with a male or female or couple aged between 20 and 55. Looks not so important but there must be an attraction. This will be our first time so may be slow for a start but are keen to try most things at least once. Looking to meet maybe June or July.

the other half of kiwicpl75 -

want a girl to take curious out of mrs profile- mr will be watching

We have has some fun and would like to try more, Looking for a single guy for Mrs to have some fun with Or a couple for some same room fun.

Please read below and decide if we sound like a good fit before you friend or flirt with us. Our time (like yours) is precious......

Crazy, by Kitten: He is a happy smiling easy going kinda guy. Liked by everyone who meet him. My silver fox , he's charming and flirty and heaps of fun. Ruggedly handsome with great shoulders and legs. He is generous in the bedroom, sexy as hell and my best friend, we share everything.

Kitten, by Crazy: She is a wonderfully generous and friendly gal. Incredibly sexy, and a hell of a lot more flirty than me! A very sharp wit and excellent sense of humour completes a pretty damn perfect package. Her beautiful skin, magnificent breasts and a very saucy sexy smile are a delight. I like a curvy girl and my girl certainly has those. Oh, she likes girls too :)

We are a package deal, we don't play alone, or do straight swaps. We prefer people of a similar age to ourselves, and most importantly if we can't connect on a friend level, we are unlikely to want to take it further. With this in mind, if you're after a quick fuck, thanks for the offer but no thanks.

We are located in Christchurch.

Message us if your interested, don't be shy. Looking forward to chatting soon.....

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

Hi there,

Just looking to have a bit of fun here. Everyone is different and this seems like a great place to express yourself.

There are a couple of things that I would love to do so please feel free to ask me.

I have an open mind and love to please.


We are looking for a single man or woman to get to know, form a genuine friendship with and have some fun... Preferably in their thirties, and local.

Would also be interested in  meeting some other couples for drinks who are new to this.

This is our first time, so we're not wanting to rush into anything.

Disclaimer: We have children.

New to the area just looking to meet up wit straight clps and single females for some fun.after a long week of working and gym what better way to relax than with some fun times

I'm easy to get on wit always up for a laugh so if interested send me a message

We are looking for our first time out.

To achieve the best chemistry, we are most suited to people in their 30's-50's

We are chch couble,

We ride motor bikes we think we are fun.

We like to meet new people,

We are a bit cheeky, like to get naked.

Lets meet for a drink,

Have a few laughs to share.

see what we think of each other,

and take things from there.

Lets see if there's attraction, and a real spark.

We would like to enjoy playing with others.

prefer those who same room full swap

We like it sensual, relaxed and a little firty,

For all of us it must be a very fun night!

So send us a message, and make it flirty,

A nice couple like you would feel just right.

Just looking for good clean fun with like minded people. Free & easy going. Just getting into cross dressing. Love to meet likewise


Happy, friendly straight male / bi-curious female. Looking for a happy couple with bi curious female around our age for same room fun, voyeurism, exhibitionism etc. We get on cam from time to time and would love to find some couples who also like camming. We love outdoor sexy fun ,feeling the warm air on your body, we like taking sexy outdoor and flashing pictures when we are out on the town etc. Dogging sounds like fun if its with clean respectful people. We have a young family so going out for fun has to be planned well before hand. Drop us a line if this sounds like you. We have plenty of pictures to share if you attached some with your reply to this profile. Thanks for reading.

i am cool in nature hot in bed -

hi sweet galz, i a am looking forward to give u a trip to heaven.

Hi I am a generous lover, nice guy and and intelligent. If you want a guy that puts your satisfaction before his own, then I am the guy for you. I do have a couple of exceptional bedroom talents, but you will have to ask me what they are if you really want to know. I always practice safe sex, and have a very high standard of personal hygiene, it goes without saying I would expect the same of my playmates. My modus operandi; I like to build sexual tension by massage, caressing and generally teasing with fingers, hands and tongue until you are fit to bust. If you are into this, hit me up! Looking forward to hearing from you soon...

Cheers TT

It been all most a year now that i lost my partner i miss having fun and swapping i would love to have other nice woman so we can do it again

Hi there.Thanks for looking at my profile.Bi guy here,love to meet couples and single.Very sport guy and very clean and discrete.Hit me up