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11th Oct 2011 - 4:33pm
Fred_n_Wilma's AvatarFred_n_Wilma
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Wellington
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Well, where to start! The forum seems a bit off the beaten track. All those young single blokes looking for anything with a pulse, the photo hunters and time wasters etc. are all looking at the pics and trying to get off remotely.

So in all of this how dose a decent couple get some discrete fun? Discreet seems to be code for don't tell my wife! We have semi public jobs and ex partners, kids etc that we would prefer to keep this away from.

Maybe there would be a few introduction couples that take you through things like a club of sorts. Do's and donts, the lingo and terms. If you are keen for your first bi experience it should be a nice gradual experience..

 

11th Oct 2011 - 5:06pm
deruiter's Avatarderuiter
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19 Sep 2010
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Avondale
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All good things take time. Some people jump straight on in and meet up right away, others ease into the lifestyle. Have you spent much time in the chatroom?

 

12th Oct 2011 - 11:50am
bodylicious's Avatarbodylicious
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13 Apr 2011
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Highbury
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Yes it can be really tough to find couples to connect with,I'm not sure what it is about Wellington but on the surface everyone seems really keen then nothing happens. We have found one regular couple to play with so if you'd like to meet us,maybe for drinks like a meet and greet? And like I said in my message,we're happy to answer any questions you might have icon_smile.gif

 

13th Oct 2011 - 10:56pm
tmlgn's Avatartmlgn
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17 Oct 2010
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Dunedin
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hard to find anyone in the chatroom from dunners when we are on, most ppl we have played with have come from nights out at the pub or a party ot friends of friend etc. But chatroom still fun at times

Our first time

31st Oct 2011 - 7:54pm
Dale's AvatarDale
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19 Oct 2006
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8
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Invercargill Central
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Our first time we were at the pub and a horny girl took advantage of the in the ladies. This opened a new world to us. The following weekend we meet up with her and a girlfriend of hers
's, we had a great time two girls in one room and myself and the other in another swingingchair.gif

We have meet couples through magazines and this website. Plus we did have friends that we had a benefits relationship with.

The key is take it slow and go with the flow. icon_wink.gif