Need a system to verify people are genuine. maybe an admin or moderator can view them on web cam then click a box that only a mod or admin can click to say this couple is verified genuine. that one thing would make this site 100 times better then any other out there if that one issue could be solved.

While this is a good idea in embryo, the logistics of this would be a nightmare.
Yes i get that its annoying how many fakes there are out there.
But the wonderful thing about this place is that people (genuine people) can find the place, and sign up and be chatting in a matter of minutes.
Its a draw card that the owners think is a key focal point and as such the signup (and thus any form of verification system) is unlikely to ever be implemented.

Plus anonymity at this site is one of the things that make people happy to come along when they are new. Having to prove who you are would probably dissuade a lot of our great newer members who have never played or uncertain about playing.

Stricter measures during signup would be a great idea in my view, but i don't pay the bills round here so i 100% follow the owners vision of the site.

If that was to happen, would that mean that the unfortunate people who are real but dont have a cam would be judged as being fakes?

I being one of those would be very upset and im sorry to say it, but if i was new to the site and that was the case i wouldnt return.