It could be an overgeneralisation here but in my opinion and experience in receiving emails or information, there are many profiles on here with the intention of playing and cheating around on their partners, wives or friends.
But what those misbehaviours do and in some ways, is spoil it for the genuine couples or singles who want honest and good play friendships, particularly if you are looking for safe, secure and discrete.
We know it happens and as a recently single but experienced female swinger, I have always tried to be careful and sensitive when it comes to playing with couples in the past, particularly to the female of the couple.
However there are those who in so called "swing etiquette" do NOT know where the fine line is drawn, milk it and cross it, eventually breaking up relationships and marriages. There is a huge difference between, "swing" and having an affair.
I have heard and seen it said, experienced and done, couples look to enrich their lives and relationships, so search for friendship, fun and enjoyment but there are the FEW and rare people who just simply CANT be trusted and have to say there are some right here on site who have no consciousness or conviction.
That's my thoughts, what are yours?
Yes fire I totally agree with your post I have had this happen to me with my husband and woman on this site the lies are the hardest thing to deal with.
The other thing that's hard to deal with is everyone knew except me and only one person had the balls to say something to me bout what was going on.
Quote by truckieswife" date="22/02/2015 1:06:26 pm Yes fire I totally agree with your post I have had this happen to me with my husband and woman on this site the lies are the hardest thing to deal with. The other thing that's hard to deal with is everyone knew except me and only one person had the balls to say something to me bout what was going on.
Dear Truckieswife There are the so called "swing couples" who perceive it to be marvellous in seeing marriages or others break up because they continue to say its not their business or their job to do it. But they don't mind you, playing the fool's mind eye and I bet there is a bunch of them who have blocked you too? You are not to blame here, lets get that right! There seems to have been a very manipulative female in the profile you mentioned and I hope you get your justice for those liars and cheats on here.
Thanks for that fire is a real shame I cant name and shame on here otherwise I would but my mum always said 2 wrongs don't make a right so wont go there but thank you for your kind words.
Quote by Firebutice" date="22/02/2015 1:55:00 pm Yes fire I totally agree with your post I have had this happen to me with my husband and woman on this site the lies are the hardest thing to deal with. The other thing that's hard to deal with is everyone knew except me and only one person had the balls to say something to me bout what was going on.
Dear Truckieswife There are the so called "swing couples" who perceive it to be marvellous in seeing marriages or others break up because they continue to say its not their business or their job to do it. But they don't mind you, playing the fool's mind eye and I bet there is a bunch of them who have blocked you too? You are not to blame here, lets get that right! There seems to have been a very manipulative female in the profile you mentioned and I hope you get your justice for those liars and cheats on here.
I have another old saying Truckie, that "what comes round, goes round" and perhaps the said female doesn't know what she's really brought into until the honey moons over and reality sets in.
That maybe the husband looks to be "golden" on the outside and she will find out that second best with someone else's left overs is not such a good idea after all.
But hopefully you find peace, happiness and harmony in your life, because I know there are some beaut gems here.
My friend, who introduced me to this site, was a victim of a married woman, who is still on the site, who actually rang his wife and told her about their so called "NSA" relationship, all because he wanted to call it off, which of course nearly destroyed his marriage. Genuine people on this site need to be made aware of these types of people. It is all very well being able to "vouch" for someone, but what about being able to "warn" about someone?
I guess there are too many dick heads on the site who will "warn" about someone just because they were rebuffed by them. It's difficult, but when you do find a true friend(s) to swing with, it is a lot of fun!
again instead of spreading rumours the person involved should be offering proof of the situation to the moderators , either directly in chat or by using the report function on the offenders profile.
the constant carry on in this thread is a clear showing that those involved just want to spread the discussion and not make a grown up message to the moderation team and that is really sad.
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